Today you could call it my anniversary, Ive been married a full week now. Its still weird signing my signature on forms differently and accepting phone calls as Mrs Murphy but a nice feeling,the best thing Ive ever done. Our wedding had been planned before, 9 years ago. I had my dress, venue all sorted but at the same time I also found out my mums cancer was terminal. I decided then to call the wedding off as I didnt want to put my mum in an arwkward situation and having people looking at her out of sympathy. It was a hard decision to cancel it but looking back the best thing to do. Our wedding day was amazing, just fabulous. Being surrounded by friends and family all relaxing and having a nice day. After a full week of rain, on the morning the weather was sunny. In my heart I do believe my mum was with me the sun was lovely and stayed out till we got to the venue, then it rained hahahahhahha.
Any readers thinking “should I go ahead with our wedding?” My advice is …go ahead. There will never be a perfect moment to get married. Money is the biggest worry and to be fair you will never have the money. We saved for a good 7 months. Every penny we had was put into the wedding, there was also a lot of arguements and stress but so so worth it. Just to see how gorgeous the kids looked.
Happy 1 week anniversary Mr Murphy……..the curry is on you tonight x x x x